Last night ,I was speaking with a friend of mine on the phone about distant relationship. People we are living in 2000 and shit year , divorce is the new trend , being a slut or a gigolo is no longer an issue (humm yes) and the temptation island is just next door....So why do people opt for a distant relationship when someone in the couple needs to go????
ANSWER: LOVE...
The real one ,the one who allow you to hold on everyday cause you know that in 2 or 3 weeks sometimes more or less ,you will see your special somebody. The one that knows you better than your own parents(crazy but true!!!),the one that lift you up so high ,your +1 ,your living upgrade...The one you gave your all to!
BUT 70% of the time this person is not here,so what?Messing around ,cheating...Everybody in that kind of relationship has taught about it,some has crossed the line and some will never do that to keep the relation clean ,tight and pure. Anyway, that's the everyday life you can ALSO get those concerns when your boo is living with you as well. It gets tricky when one of the fellows doesn't have the hope anymore,and loses the vision cause it will lead to miscommunication,frustration and block the couple, block the harmony....
Being unhappy,tired , hopeless and lonely is quiet understandable and really difficult when you have to live with that everyday...But what is gonna happen when the person come back because the reason your so down ,so lost in the first place and wants to give up is because you are in love with someone that you can't really have 24/7... Blocking yourself to what is the greatest to you is as ridiculous as not accepting 1 000 000 $ cash . I f you want it go and get it, fight for it but don't settle for less or an okay someone when you can have it all. No one built an house to destroy it...Don't waist the love that you have,speak ,shout ,express yourself but don't kill it you will never managed to do that unless it is really over...In that case you don't need to runaway ,you have find a REAL and better stability allegedly.
